The foolproof method of Asian online dating
In any country, you have the option of online dating. If you have tried dating Asian girls via the internet, you know how frustrating and difficult this can be where you just waste your time and money.
Dating in Thailand, China, the Philipines, Japan or anywhere else in Asia can be the same if you do not have an effective approach. You can be like every other person out there and get minimal to no results, or you can read this section and find the bulletproof system to meeting Asian girls online.
Personally, I love the idea of meeting girls online. This gives you an entirely different avenue to meeting someone new without leaving your house. Less is more. Do less and get more is a great philosophy to live you dating life by.
Before you enter the online dating world, you must remember one thing:
Online dating is a numbers game!
Meaning, even with the greatest profile, the most handsome photo, and an effective first email, you will still only get a response from a small percentage of the women you contact.
A real example of this:
When I first started online dating in Thailand, I joined two main websites. One was free; the other was a paid one.
After a couple of weeks of trial and error, I had a great profile with a few great opening emails.
A week later, I had five dates that week.
I would usually do a daytime meet up at Starbucks for the first date. This is a great choice because with online dating, there are quite a few risks involved (explained below).
A daytime date is best because if you do not like her or if she has an unexpected surprise, you can leave in a respectful manner after 20 minutes.
Anyway, during all these dates I would out of curiosity ask, “how many men do you have contact you a week?” I would get the response of them not knowing, but it was a lot.
Two weeks down the road, one of the girls ended up as my next girlfriend. I would ask her the same question, and she said about a thousand men a week. I thought she was joking, a thousand new men contacting a girl in a week. That number was hard to wrap
my mind around.
She opened up her laptop and logged into her second email account (created for online dating), low and behold, she was getting over 200 new emails a day. She was having over 1,400 new men contact her every week.
One reason I love online dating for dating Asian girls is the variety of girls you can meet. Online you will find females ranging from bar girls to very successful women. By reading their profile, you can get a good idea how to classify the girl into one of the three categories:
1- Looking for a ’sugar daddy’/sponsor
2- Looking for a boyfriend
3- Looking for a husband
Look at the age group of their preferred mate. If she is 22 years old and looking for a man between the ages of 40 – 60, you will be able to tell which of the three she is. Did she actually take the time to write her profile and add real photos of her? You might
have a number two on your hands.
Does she have a photo wearing a bikini or sexy underwear? Good chance she is a number one.
When you read our proven techniques for online dating, you will find that these questions do not matter until you have already received a response. By falling in love with her photo and profile before a response is a good way to set up yourself for disappointment.
Seven Proven Online Dating Tips:
1- As mentioned many times already, online dating is a numbers game. Do not get hung up on one girl’s profile. Nearly 100 new women sign up every week for these websites, use this to your advantage.
2- If it’s a paid website, start with the girls who have paid their monthly membership. The girls who have paid are more serious in their search for a man.
3- Next, start with the newest members. These are the girls which just signed up and have not been bombarded for the last few week or months from men already. Start with the fresh meat.
4- Do not waste your time sending an indicator of interest. Messages are more effective.
5- Create a template and mass mail it. You can go with two styles. A short message to the point or something more detailed which refers to her profile. Use the second type if the girl is super cute who took time to write her profile.
6- Use your best photos, but have your profile show that you are a “fun” and “good” person. Online dating can be scary for some girls, show that you are a good man.
7- Get her on MSN or Skype ASAP. Once you have some contact with them, you want to start talking with them off the dating website. This will keep their attention on you. As you can see by our proven templates, you can even ask or offer your MSN user name in
the first message.
July 24, 2010 No Comments
Asian Dating – Step By Step Guide To Meeting Asian Girls
Can’t get enough of Asian girls? You’re not the only one buddy! The yellow fever is going around and it’s hard to get rid off. Don’t fight your attraction to Asian girls. I’ve dated Asian women exclusively for the last 5 years and I haven’t looked back. Let me share my own step by step guide to meeting Asian girls.
Step 1. Meeting Asian Girls
Ok, so if you want to date Asian women, then you have to meet them first. Now, if you live in California, Toronto or any other city with a large Asian population, then it will be easier, but what if you live somewhere else? What you do is find out where Asians go in your area. Maybe there is a ‘Chinatown’ or certain bars, coffee shops or clubs that are popular with Asian girls? Always worth going just for some noodles or spicy Thai Pat Kra Pow. If you’re in the age range of university students, then it can be a good idea to join an international student organization. Thousands of Asian girls go abroad to study every year and they would love to meet some locals.
Step 2. Attracting Asian Girls
Here’s where many guys go wrong. Asian girls are not these strange, exotic creatures, delicate like a lotus flower. They are girls like any other girls. That also means, it’s not nessecarily the best idea to practice your three word Chinese vocabulary, particularly if she is Korean or Japanese! Just do your thing like you would otherwise, but remember that Asian culture is different than western. Being polite pays off.
Step 3. Dating Asian Girls
Dating an Asian girl may be very different than dating other girls. For the most part, Asian women are raised more conservatively, with clear traditional gender roles. That means she will have expectations that you will take charge and lead the way. She is unlikely to make the first move in any situation. That doesn’t mean you should be a dominating prick, but there’s no need for the ‘what do you think honey?’ either.
August 1, 2010 No Comments
How To Approach Asian Girls
Ok, so you want to know how best to approach Asian women? Many guys do, because Asian girls are sometimes pretty hard to read. That’s a cultural thing. Asians in general don’t like to reveal too much emotion, so the signals they send out tend to be very subtle and that can be hard to read. Asian girls are just not very straightforward. Even if she wants to jump your bones, that doesn’t mean she is going to show it.
Most western guys have no clue as to how to approach an Asian woman. Asian women sometimes seem serious or unresponsive. Do not act like that drunken buffoon in front of them, as Asian women look for boyfriend material when they see a man. They definitely do not want to hook up with someone who is going to embarrass them in front of their friends. Be serious about her. Pay attention. That’s not saying be boring, but just tone it down a bit.
Ask any guy who is successful with Asian women and he will tell you to be patient. Don’t try to call her or sex her on the first date. It can take time. They are just not as sexually confident as white girls. Remember that she most likely had quite strict parents and there was no sneaking out at night. She may even be a virgin. She wants you to know that she isn’t easy.
So that’s the score. Be serious and have patience. That’s the most important thing to approaching Asian girls.
August 1, 2010 No Comments
Dating Asian Girls – Are Asian Women Submissive?
I hear this a lot. Asian girls are submissive housewives while white women are more assertive and independent. Lot’s of guys want to date Asian girls because they know this stereotype and they are intrigued by the dream of a mysterious, sensual Asian woman. But if you think Asian women are submissive, just wait till you get into a relationship with one!
The truth is Asian women ARE submissive, to a point. That doesn’t mean they are weak, but it does mean that most are very feminine and truly want and desire a man that can take charge and care for them. They want a man to behave like a real gentleman. All that old fashioned stuff like walking on the arm, opening doors etc, works very well with Asian women. In fact, one of the things that most girls that I have talked to, like about white guys are that they are more forward, more direct, bolder in their approach than Asian guys. A guy who is dressed well, polite but bold enough to just walk up and start a pleasant conversation will do very well with Asian women.
Asians are definitely not the submissive housewife stereotype, but most do not like confrontation or bad words. Asian culture is very non-confrontational and places lots of importance on keeping peace. That’s something that makes Asian women attractive to many white guys. ‘You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar’ is a saying that makes a lot of sense I think. So treat her with respect in return and you will get even more back.
August 1, 2010 No Comments
The White Guy’s Guide To Dating Asian Girls
Ok, so you want to attract and date Asian women. You may already know that there are some places where it’s easier to meet Asian girls and hook up, but before you head down to your local Chinese restaurant, you need to know something. Cause if you get this wrong then you will always struggle to get phone numbers and dates. What you need to is; Are Asian girls really that different from non-Asian girls?
The answer to this question has been answered many times and in many different ways, trust me on that. I’ve seen some very stupid stuff floating around the internet, basically putting all Asian women into stereotypes that are not based in reality but in the fantasies of some guys. I’m talking about the submissive housewife looking for a rich husband category.
You may actually come across ‘experts’ and their books claiming this. If you take their words, you may just end up with a bad divorce real soon.
While it’s true that Asian women generally like their men to meet at least some criteria (educated, financial stability, somewhat intelligent), you should realise that this is what most women look for. How many women are actually attracted to a dim-witted bum? Not many.
Asian women are not different from other women. Once this simple realization dawns on you, then you will stop asking stupid questions about her race and assume a lot of thinks.
Don’t think this is a big deal? Think again. Asian girls, particularly hot girls, get approached by guys looking to practice their 2 word Chinese vocabulary, regardless of if she is Chinese or not. Trust me, that is the best way to make her think that you are a creep or basement dweller.
Once you are able to see past her race and treat her like any other girl, then you will earn her respect. This works wonders and allows you to show her your strengths.
August 1, 2010 No Comments
